Someone thought they could call me out on my previous post by decreeing I was picking on a long gone exgirlfriend. How is one picking on someone by not tolerating the spread of lies? I can honestly say they’re lies because I have proof and witnesses to these lies yet here I am being called out for sticking up for myself against two people who honestly don’t know even know me like they proclaim to. Just because you know of someone doesn’t mean you know them, know what I mean? And if you think this about you then it either is or you have a guilty conscience, take your pick seeing that I name no names. Besides, neither of have you reason to be here other than you need acknowledgement in your lives for whatever reason.

Why should I have one ounce of respect for a person who has done the following to me:

• Grab my ass for whatever reason when she was drunk. I’m guessing there was a twisted reason behind it.
• Tell others I was her best friend since Kindergarten. I barely met the girl in my twenties and we were never best friends.
• Tell others that I, her so called best friend, stole her fiancé who was a boyfriend of 2 months when she was 19. I met him years later.
• Call his answering machine when she knew we barely got home from clubbing in hopes I’d leave him. Nice try.
• Call our answering maching once we moved in and talk crap.
• Call the apartment and talk crap to me when he wasn’t home.
• Tell people we were stalking her. She only mentioned one restaurant when I confronted her about it and funny it was a place I never stepped foot in, still haven’t. Funny I didn’t have a car back then so how did I follow her.
• Play mind games with our friends who she made sure were her friends too in time. True friends knew her game and caught on quickly. She has a bad habit of making friends choose and for the few that went I’m glad because a real friend doesn’t play those silly games.
• Inform complete stangers of her whole made up story while drunk at clubs so they would side with her and confront me.  Funny how quickly she backed down when I informed these people of the truth and told her to take her best shot. I never had someone so quick to practically worship me in fear as she did that night, it was pathetic to see a girl so lost and drunk. Now she throws her punches through others long distance because in person she can’t deal with the truth when confronted.
• Talk crap about my little sister who had no idea who the girl calling her a slut was. She might remember that night when he told her off for good and said to stay away. She’s lucky he did the talking because you don’t mess with little sisters regardless if they’re bigger than you.
• Talk crap about me with people I know online. Honestly did you think they wouldn’t say anything?
• Constantly attempts to keep tabs on the two us. Don’t you know our mutual friends are sick of your antics and how you casually always seem to ask about us? Get a grip already, damn!
• Convince a mutual friend who video taped our wedding to let her see it. How many boundaries can a person cross? Did she really think she was cute seeing our video before we did? Need I say how tacky that is do that to a bride?

There are more things I could add that she has done to me or the both of us but you get the jist of it I’m sure.

So I ask you, why the hell do I have to validate anything? How the hell am I picking on her when the worst I’ve done to her was wear jeans after I said I would wear a dress. In the barely good times between us who the hell did her boyfriend, now husband, call when she was so screwed up on drugs and alcohol that she thought she was in the tub with me. Yeah, he called me because he knew I would walk her through that moment since he was worried and she was insisting I was there with her. But she tossed our ounce of friendship out the window because she for whatever reason cannot cope with him being with anyone else. I thank God I never had my hair chopped off like she did to another girl he dated, but yet I’m the one picking on her, gotta love it folks.

If you’re worried about what I wrote about then get a real life and go take a walk with your family, it’s a more contructive solution to your blood pressure and your worried little mind. And for love of everything sacred stop keep track of every person you don’t like, it’s not healthy at all or productive for you and causes deeper resentment every time you turn the page.

Posted on April 10th, 2009 by Dmodegirl
Filed under: rants